Clients Are Using AI for Emotional Support. Therapy Should Make Space to Talk About It.
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Clients Are Using AI for Emotional Support. Therapy Should Make Space to Talk About It.

As AI tools like Chat GPT become more integrated into daily life, more people are using them for emotional support, reflection, journaling, problem-solving, and even quasi-therapeutic conversations. While caution is absolutely warranted, especially around replacing actual psychotherapy with AI, the growing wave of warnings about “chatbot therapy” may unintentionally create shame or secrecy around something many clients are already doing.





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The Psychology Trick That Makes Hard Things Easier to Start
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The Psychology Trick That Makes Hard Things Easier to Start

One of the biggest obstacles to exercise is not the workout itself — it’s getting started. Recent research and reporting suggest that shifting your mindset away from “I have to complete everything” and toward “I just need to begin” can dramatically reduce avoidance and increase follow-through.





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Recognizing Perimenopause: Symptoms, Misconceptions, and Support
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Recognizing Perimenopause: Symptoms, Misconceptions, and Support

Many women enter perimenopause without realizing what’s happening. What starts as trouble sleeping, mood changes, or unexpected fatigue can feel easy to dismiss or mislabel as everyday stress. But as highlighted in a recent NPR article, this stage of life is often far more complex—and far less recognized—than it should be.



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Polyamory: Love, Rejection, and Emotional Reality
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Polyamory: Love, Rejection, and Emotional Reality

Polyamory is often imagined as a kind of emotional abundance, where connection flows freely and love refuses to be limited. It carries a sense of openness that feels almost ideal. But behind that openness is a more complicated reality.



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Therapy, Illness, and Professional Wills: Our Policy
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Therapy, Illness, and Professional Wills: Our Policy

Talking about illness and death isn’t easy. But naming it openly is one way we honor the depth of the therapeutic relationship. If you have questions or concerns about this, please bring them up—we welcome the conversation.

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Simple Comforts for Sleepless Nights
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Simple Comforts for Sleepless Nights

So much advice about sleep can feel like another list of rules: no screens, no caffeine, no blue light. But this piece focuses on things that feel doable—small comforts that meet you where you are, rather than scolding you for not being perfectly relaxed.



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The Many Ways We Grieve
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The Many Ways We Grieve

Grief is not a linear process—it changes shape over time, and it often lives alongside joy, memory, and meaning


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